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Separating- can husband walk in house whenever he likes?

Hi my husband is meant to be moving out in a few days, am staying with our children and im going to be paying the mortgage. He keeps saying he can come and go as he pleases as its half his house as well, but I will feel really uncomfortable if I have to worry he could walk in the house whenever he gets the urge. Also am I legally allowed to put a chain on the door? I just hate the thought that he could come and go anytime he feels like it, thank you
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  • Alter_ego
    Alter_ego Posts: 3,842 Forumite
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    Sorry but as owner you cannot deny him entry unless you obtain an injunction.
    I am not a cat (But my friend is)
  • burlington6
    burlington6 Posts: 2,111 Forumite
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    Buy him out. It's not just your house, it's his too
  • McKneff
    McKneff Posts: 38,857 Forumite
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    Alter Ego is complletely correct.

    It works both ways in all fairness. How would you feel if he locked you out.....
    make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
    and we will never, ever return.
  • dobs
    dobs Posts: 517 Forumite
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    Can I put a chain on the door though? I'd let him in I just don't want him walking in at any time without warning
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  • dobs
    dobs Posts: 517 Forumite
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    I don't want to lock him out but he won't be living here and I hate the thought I could be home in bed or something and he walks in unannounced
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  • Alter_ego
    Alter_ego Posts: 3,842 Forumite
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    I think a chain would be OK as you'll be living alone now. Won't stop him when you're out though.
    I am not a cat (But my friend is)
  • dobs
    dobs Posts: 517 Forumite
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    When we separated before and I left the house I never walked in, I always knocked and waited
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  • dobs
    dobs Posts: 517 Forumite
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    I will be here with the children for a while before we sell up
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  • Sky_
    Sky_ Posts: 605 Forumite
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    If you'd had a chain on the door before separating, would you now remove it?

    As long as you let him in, there is no harm in having a chain on the door when you are in the house. If challenged, simply say it is to make you feel safer from the world in general.
    2022. 2% MF challenge. £730/3000
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